Twenty-eighth Sun. in O.T.
Twenty-eighth Sunday in Ordinary Time – Oct. 11, 2026
Readings: Is. 25:6–10a •Matt. 22:1–14 Dress for Success Dcn. Bill Kenney
We were blessed to have two of our children married this past summer. Both weddings were witnessed and celebrated with great joy for both the happy couples. Afterwards, there was a lovely wedding banquet with all the trimmings - drink, food, music, and dancing. Hallmark picture perfect. The conventional dress for a wedding ceremony and party is to dress “nice” or “dressy”- appropriate to give honor and respect due the couple and the special occasion they worked so hard to provide for their guests.
In our Gospel reading from Matthew, Jesus explains a parable to the chief priests and elders the, “Chosen People”. A King hosts a wedding banquet or feast for his son and sends out invitations, expecting favorable RSVP’s. They simply rejected his invitation. So, he sent his servants again with more information of how glorious this wedding banquet was going to be! They responded not only in rejection, but even violence- dishonoring the King and his Son. Finally, the King sends more servants to open the wedding banquet to all people, not just the ungracious chosen people.
The place was packed. The King was satisfied until he came upon a man who did not wear the proper wedding garment. Now, in ancient Near East royal custom, a benevolent king hosting such a wedding banquet would frequently provide the wedding garments at the door. This man either refused the garment out of ignorance or out of spite and disrespect for his host. He stood in silence lacking internal spiritual grace. He was thrown out the door. The character roles can readily convey the elder’s disorder and even ours today.
The saying, “dress for success” takes on an eschatological, or end-times, meaning when we speak of dressing for the eternal wedding banquet of the Lamb, in the Kingdom of God. The only true, lasting success we will ever enjoy will be our eternal salvation with Christ in Heaven. The garments we put on for such success have both an external and internal significance.
At Mass we celebrate and memorialize the passion, death, and resurrection of Jesus and partake of the gift of his Body and Blood in the Eucharist. The Catechism teaches us, “…the liturgy of the Mass is a ‘participation in the heavenly liturgy’ where the church on earth is united with the liturgy of heaven.”
How do you think we should dress for such an encounter with God? Now, no one is going to be thrown out of here for being under or inappropriately dressed. Our clothing, however, should be modest. Modesty is part of temperance, a Cardinal virtue for moderation and self-control. It avoids the extremes of shabbiness on one hand and dazzling apparel on the other. From a bishop’s document in 2006: (Q) “We should also come to the sacred liturgy appropriately dressed. As Christians we should dress in a modest manner, wearing clothes that reflect our reverence for God and that manifest our respect for the dignity of the liturgy and for one another.” (end Q)
Today, however, the tendency is toward showing too much skin. Skimpy and overly tight clothing, more like beachwear, doesn’t belong in Church, plain and simple. Consider also the near occasion of sin we may cause someone! Now, having said that, to forsake Mass due to not having appropriate clothing is not the answer either. Never miss Mass. God understands the intentions of your heart which is really the most important part of dressing for and celebrating Mass.
The reason for dressing modestly and respectfully for Mass is because it can be an external sign of what we believe internally. Dressing appropriately is a crucial way to show our respect for God and the sacraments. When we enter the church doors, we are entering sacred space. God’s house is sacred space that demands that we pay honor and respect to him when we are visiting him. As the Clergy wear special garments to celebrate the sacraments, so too you are to wear garments appropriate to the occasion, especially the Mass.
Do our external garments reflect the internal garments of our soul? When I see pictures of third-world country adults and children in bright white shirts and dresses gathered to celebrate Mass under a grass hut, I am often moved to see the outward sign of their internal love for God. Their faith and love for God is undeniable.
How are we dressed, internally, for the Mass and everyday living? Do we put on the garments of faith, hope, and love? Charity, humility, and forgiveness? Do we put on an attitude of gratitude? Is my garment clean? If the wedding garment symbolizes the grace of my baptism, do I regularly cleanse and renew it through the
Sacrament of Reconciliation? We are to be clothed with Christ so people will know we are Christians; to make the internal garments of our soul express and radiate out to our external living: our care and love for others.
In turn, we receive from our benevolent God the rich foods and choice wines of his mercy and grace, so graciously and abundantly given to us, culminating in the Body and Blood of his Son at Mass.
Ours is a loving King and Father. He offers us an eternal wedding banquet at the end of our lives. We need only accept his daily gifts with a contrite and humble heart dressed with the garments of virtue in conducting our lives. May we all RSVP with a resounding “yes” to the invitation. May we internally transform and don a spirit of holiness, by the grace of God, for our salvation and for the glory of God.


