Fourth Sunday of Advent
Joseph had a choice.
Well, that’s not exactly true. He had TWO choices. The first is one we would probably make without batting an eye. The scenario is relatively simple. You know it well. Joseph discovers that the woman he was going to marry is pregnant. And more importantly, he knows the child is not his. Now, Joseph, being the decent man he was, doesn’t get furious or make a scene or go around spreading gossip. Rather, he has no intention of adding to Mary’s predicament, no intention of making the situation worse for her. But he still has a choice to make. He can stay betrothed to Mary, or he can walk away --- feeling that it’s all too much to handle, much more than he can take. And he does what most of us would probably do in a similar situation. He walks away. Nothing surprising so far.
But, as you know, that’s not the end of the story. Soon he has another choice to make. And this comes about because he now has new information that changes things.
Note that I said “changes”, not “simplifies”.
You see, the information he receives does not make things easier.
As you know, this new information comes through the action of an angel in a dream --- a messenger from God who assures him that God is the one who is behind Mary’s pregnancy…that God’s Spirit is actually responsible. And consequently, the child Mary is carrying is no ordinary child. Somehow this boy would “save people from their sins”. I can imagine Joseph thinking, “Now what does THAT mean?” And once again Joseph has a choice --- the same choice. He can stay or he can go. He can accept the nearly unbelievable circumstances that brought about Mary being with child --- and stay betrothed to her --- or he can reject what was revealed to him and simply walk away as he had planned. After all, who would believe what had been revealed to him in his dream? Joseph, that’s who.
What choice would you make?
Thank goodness we don’t have to make the same sort of choice! But is that really true? Does the choice Joseph ultimately made have nothing to do with us, nothing to do with the decisions we make day after day, nothing to do with our lives?
Advent is rapidly coming to a close. It always goes so quickly. And Christmas is just a few days away. Have we prepared well? Are we ready? I guess it depends on what we believe Advent is all about, what we believe we are supposed to be preparing for, what we are expecting to happen come Christmas morning.
If the answer is just “Jesus’ birthday”, well, we don’t need to prepare for that. Or if it’s just to recall some stories from two thousand years ago, well we don’t have to prepare for that.
Or if it’s just to open a few gifts and have a few parties and bake some cookies and put up a tree, well, that might be busy work, but it certainly doesn’t amount to any sort of “spiritual” preparation. If Advent is just about those sorts of things then maybe it’s just a counting down of days rather than an important season that deserves our attention.
As disciples, all those sorts of things (worthwhile in their own way) are just add-ons, little side-roads we can travel down if we want to. But they are really not the heart of the season. You see, Advent is fundamentally about the same sort of choice that Mary made, and the choice that Joseph ultimately made. And what was that choice? Choosing to see God where you’ve never seen him before. Choosing to see God’s hand in a situation that, at some level, makes little sense. Choosing to accept and embrace something that you could never have imagined. Choosing to be ok with God doing what God wants to do, being ok with God surprising us and astonishing us and at times, bewildering us. In a sense, it’s about accepting that God isn’t always where we expect him to be. Like in a manger.
The Incarnation teaches us these profound truths. And belief in the Incarnation is our own kind of “dream” --- a kind of “new information” we have that changes everything, changes how we are supposed to see not one situation, but all, see not one person, but everyone.
By breaking into our world in the person of Jesus - God shows us that he is not separate from the world but is in communion with it, that he is not at some distance from the world but immersed in it, that the created world is not an obstacle to God but a channel of his grace.
And that means God can dwell anywhere and everywhere, in every situation and in every person --- even in a woman from long ago who was living her life nearly anonymously. Can we make the choice Joseph made? Or Mary made? Can we accept that God is present in the person we don’t like, present in the tragedy we are experiencing, present in the co-worker we don’t get along with, present in our sorrows and failures and disappointments and crosses, present even in the spouse or children we might not always see eye to eye with?
Can we see God, incarnate everywhere?
Or will we only see him in the places we expect, in the people who make us comfortable, and in the situations that bring us joy?
That’s what Advent is preparing us for and what Christmas promises. But the choice is always ours. What choice will we make?


